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Mick Daly Purpose Leader
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Is My Leadership Spiritual?
Mick Daly
(Elder, Purpose Leader: Leader Development)
April
2007
Most Christians
sense that there should be something different about their leadership from what
they see in the secular world. But what should that difference look like?
I wasn’t picked from
the pool of 70 for the 12 seats in the Jury box last month – bummer! I really
want to do my Jury duty, but my motives may be suspect because I loved John
Grisham’s Runaway Jury (book and
film)!
The Jury selection
process was fascinating. For 3 hours I watched the prosecutor and the defense
attorney interrogate the prospective jurors individually and as a group to try
to discover whether they were likely to be sympathetic to their cause. The
defense attorney was clearly trying to influence the prospective jurors the
entire time. Even the judge herself, though silent for the most part, was
influential at several points.
This courtroom scene confirmed
for me that our working definition of ‘leadership’ is a good one: “Any time you seek to influence the
thinking, behavior, or development of people toward accomplishing a goal in
their personal or professional lives you are taking on the role of a leader”.
But there may be more.
‘Ordinary influence’, Bill Robinson points out in his fine
book “Leading People From
The Middle”, is just life; ‘extraordinary influence’ is leadership. Such
‘extraordinary’ influence from a Christian had better be spirit-led: spiritual
influence which enables spiritual leadership.
Spiritual leadership flows from the leader seeking God through
spiritual disciplines. Solitude and silence are key disciplines that enable us
to go to the place where God wants to meet us. In them, we are rescued from
relentless human “doing” so that we can experience the life of the Spirit as a
human “being”. In silent solitude, we listen for the still, small voice of God
telling us who he made us to be, his plans and purpose for us, and the people
he wants us to meet and influence on his behalf.
When God calls Jeremiah to be his prophet to Judah,
Jeremiah protests “‘Ah, Sovereign LORD . . . I do not know how to speak; I am only a
child.’ But the LORD said to me, ‘Do not say, “I am only a child.” You must go
to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. Do not be afraid of
them, for I am with you and will rescue you,’ declares the LORD” (Jer.
1:6–8).
God
calls us to live and operate in the ‘sweet spot’ (X marks the
spot in the diagram) where his
design of us and his plans for us
intersect with the needs of other people in our life.
God’s grace operates in the lives of everyone - where GOD’s
circle
overlaps the circle of OTHERS in the diagram. The
diagram shows YOU
operating about
60% in God’s will,
using many of the
gifts, strengths and abilities he has given
you, with passion, because to a large
extent you are doing
what he
designed you to love to do: in the work and with
the people God has
given you a heart for. Your interaction
with others is close to
what God planned for you and for
them; like Jeremiah,
God says to you and me ‘go to everyone
I send you to’; he
wants us to be his messenger, his
ambassador to others.
We are in their lives for a reason, and
our influence on them
is a major part of God’s plan for their lives,
as well as ours.
Now imagine the YOU circle moving i) away from the GOD and OTHERS
circles shrinking the ‘sweet spot’, and ii) toward the OTHER circle so that the
sweet spot spans the overlap of the other two circles. Are you closer to i) or ii) right now? Growth
in spiritual leadership enables us to move closer and closer to ii).
Spiritual leadership needs no title or position. It operates
from the sweet spot. It enables you to “Do what you love in the service of others who
love what you do.”
More next month ...
~ Leadership ~ |